Dallas Cowboys wide receiver Dez Bryant says black people are the reason that black people are unsuccessful and that it's not white people's fault. He posted a series of messages on Instagram and talked about racism and success. His message is that everyone is accountable for their own actions and outcome. He wants people to hold themselves accountable for their own life.
No more talk of slavery. No more blaming other people if you become a bum. No more asking for handouts. Just get to work, get things done, and be successful.
If you're a bum, then it's because of YOU. If you're successful, then it's because you chose to be. You could be given millions and still become a loser. Look how many athletes become broke after their career because they squandered the money and weren't responsible. They go from millionaires to LOSERS overnight.
If you work hard, then you'll be successful. If you expect handouts and live on welfare because you don't want to work for anything in your life, then you won't ever have a better life.
Dez Bryant raises a great point. Stop blaming everyone else for your own misery and bad choices. Be a winner. Stop being a loser.
Be responsible for YOURSELF and do a great job every day of your life.
First and foremost, I would like to say I do a great job of minding my own business, but it's pressing on my heart to share my thoughts about white Americans and black Americans (racism).
I saw a person quote Charles Barkley when he said, "We as black people, we're never going to be successful not because [of] you white people, but because of other black people."
I hate to admit it, but I understand that quote.
I've been [racially] profiled on numerous occasions, but not once has it influenced an ill feeling inside me about anyone outside of that issue. REAL SLAVERY is different from what's going on in our world now. We all (every ethnicity) have the opportunity to lead by EXAMPLE.
Instead of making videos about the history of racism that get applause or people with influence merely doing things to post for social media, we should focus on individual accountability to be better as a whole.
I recently ran into a guy I grew up with who spent his adulthood dealing drugs. While we were catching up, he shared with me that he wished that he chose a different and better path. He said seeing my success was inspiring and that it encouraged him to do better with his life.
Real question: What is wrong with being sophisticated and black? Why do we associate those who choose the straight-and-narrow as not being "black enough?" Why was it that I was one of the first examples of success to my friend?
We focus hard on fighting the realities that exist instead of creating our own reality. The ones who came for us (Martin Luther King, Rosa Parks, Malcolm X) paved a new path for us to follow. The struggles and hurt they endured created new life for us today.
It is not our job to carry the burden, but it is our job to lead by example.
Not that my opinion matters, I'm just sharing my thoughts.